Every spring semester, a week is set aside to celebrate the
LGBTQA community here at Penn State. This week March 21st through March 25th
is Penn State’s annual Pride Week for 2016.
I saw flyers in the HUB that promoted pride week and all its
events but I didn’t pay it much mind.
On Wednesday, I got out of math and didn’t have much to do.
There was a group of people outside of Old Main. They caught my attention and I
walked over.
| Eric giving his speech. |
I quickly noticed the pride flag and I began to listen to a
speech. It was a young man giving a speech, his name was Eric and he was from Nebraska.
He explained how being from such a remote place it was hard for him to identify
as his true self because it was practically unheard of. At the age of 17, he
mustered up the confidence to tell his family, including his a dad, a raging
homophobic. From the abuse he received at home from physical to emotional, he
soon learned that sports would become his outlet. Since there are no major
football teams in Nebraska, playing for their big team, the Huskies, makes you
a local celebrity. Because people respected his talents, they became more open
to him and the LGBTQA community. When Eric was done his speech he left us with
some words of wisdom: “There’s only one you, take pride in that. Celebrate
yourself.”
From this experience, I’ve learned that although laws are
being passed such as the legalization of gay marriage, the community still does
not get the respect they deserve. People are still very closed minded and
concerned about the wrong things. I can never understand why people are so
concerned about other people’s lives in a negative aspect and why they would
want to lessen someone happiness. But in the words of Eric, “never stop being being yourself.” Being loving and accepting to everyone you meet.
This would have been very interesting to see, however I do not regret skipping math (iced coffee and noodles beat fractions and factoring any day) lol. I really like the message he shared about being yourself because at the end of the day, you are the person you have to make happy, not other people.
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